Myspace. Facebook. Twitter. Instant access to every thought and everything, in a way that has never before been seen in history. Now I can know if jillian left to go get coffee at 9:57 and is now back at 10:30 and is going to sleep. Social Networking sites, the new cultural norm for america, and the world, have bound us all together, yet have simultaneously put a grand distance between us. While we can communicate almost instantly with others on facebook, it also puts an eerie distance between people than makes me question the future of American society.
Things like facebook have provided great avenues for communication, which the majority of teenagers love immensely. With one simple wallpost, sent as a text message to one’s phone, people can always be in contact. By looking at pictures and videos, one can do a whole background check on somebody they just met on there computer. Personally, I love having that amount of insite on a person without going through the trouble of getting to know them. Facebook, myspace, and Twitter are simply glimpes inside of peoples lives open to anybody who says yes to a friend grquest.
However, simultaneously social networking sites are not only a little too invasive, but the shockingly put more distance in between people. All of us have heard about myspace meet ups gone wrong, and people getting a little too much attention from the stranger they met online. Although that danger is much more tangible, there are dangers that are far less present, but far more real. Social networking has inspired distance between people. People would rather send a text message than drive to a friends house and say hello. We are becoming a society based on non-personal interactions instead of visits. My advice: take a break once a week, and go to the park.